Anthony | Police Officer

All my life I have followed my dream of becoming a Peace Officer. I have worked hard to reach my goals in life. I have struggled and I have cried. There was always part of me growing up that made me feel hindered about reaching my goals. I’ve know I been gay since I was a little boy. I can remember as far back as elementary school having this strange feeling in my stomach about a fellow class mate; freaked out because I’ve never had this strange feeling before. At the age of 13, I became the youngest Police Cadet. I was held to the same standards and had to pass the same test as everyone else did to be come a Police Cadet. But once I became a Police Cadet I quickly learned how being gay was not ok in Law Enforcement by me fellow peer’s, that most of Solano County was very homophobic! This experience truly made me feel like I was going to be the only gay Peace Officer in the world. I thought I would have to be closeted my whole life. I finally reached the age of 21 and went through the Napa Police Academy. Going through the Academy changed my life forever! Something happened that…

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The following is an article I recently wrote for Fire 20/20, an organization which promotes diversity in the fire service.

A Fire Station Ally
by Brett Dunckel

“Straight but not narrow.” was a quote I once read on a protest sign at a rally against the National Organization for Marriage. NOM had set out that summer on a bus tour stopping in various states to hold rallies in support of “traditional marriage,” marriage between one man and one woman. Their only stop in Florida, where I live, was in the Orlando area. Once I heard they’d be protesting a mere three hour drive from me, I decided I would attend my first ever counter protest. Prior to this event I was kind of an arm chair proponent of gay rights.

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The following is an article I was asked to write for a website called Fire 20/20 which serves to promote diversity in the fire and EMS service.

Active recruitment of lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender, LGBT, individuals in the fire service is virtually unheard of. It is like planning a big steak dinner at your busiest station and actually getting to enjoy it in its entirety without getting a call. Granted, not all departments recruit for the purpose of diversifying their ranks. However, amongst those who do, I have not been able to find one who targets LGBT individuals the way law enforcement does. What may be the reason behind this lack of outreach? Are we as a fire service blind to the potential this group of individuals can bring to our ranks? Are we as LGBT individuals blind to the possibilities of a career spent serving our fellow citizens? Let’s exam and hopefully dispel some of these myths in an effort to be more inclusive of LGBT individuals as possible new recruits.

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Catawba Valley Citizens Against Hate Protest

“Build a great big, large fence – 50 or 100 miles long – and put all the lesbians in there, fly over and drop some food. Do the same thing with the queers and the homosexuals, and have that fence electrified so they can’t get out. Feed them. And you know in a few years, they’ll die out. You know why? They can’t reproduce.”

These words were spoken from the pulpit by Charles Worley, a preacher in the town of Maiden, NC this past Mother’s Day. This sermon was given after the citizens of North Carolina voted to approved Amendment 1 which dictates marriage is only between one man and one woman. Now, this type of amendment is nothing new and has been passed by a number of other states, but what makes this one a little more hateful is it also disallows civil unions and domestic partnerships of all kinds, gay or straight, while terminating those already in existence.

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The following is reposted from the South Florida Gay News and was written by Tana Velen

Man in Uniform
Openly gay firefighter breaks stereotypes

Are you a man who thinks sports are boring, loves the color pink, or dresses like Cher at the Oscars on Saturday nights? Well then, you must be gay. Those are the rules, right? And if you can’t slide your feminine figure into those stereotypes whelp, you must be straight!

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Bear To Make A Difference Fundraiser

This past weekend I had the pleasure of attending “Bear to Make a Difference” in Denver Colorado. This is a fundraising event held annually for the Matthew Shepard Foundation. This year marked the events tenth anniversary, drawing a record attendance of 650 people.

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Transitions

Transitions is the name of the newsletter which I have been receiving at work the last few weeks. This is a new newsletter which we are only receiving temporarily. The reason for the newsletter? After 50 plus years, the fire department which I have worked for my entire career is going on its last call.

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The following is an article I was asked to write for a website called Fire 20/20 which serves to promote diversity in the fire and EMS service.

One evening at the station, I was sitting with my fellow firefighters watching television.  A female coworker was sitting next to me and began to joke with me in a way suggesting I was gay.  This was in no way a homophobic situation, it was merely a way in which she and I joked to relieve some of the stress of our job. My response to her joke was basically the truth in the form of another comedic reply.  However, she relatively quickly figured out I was not joking, as did the other firefighters who were sitting close enough to hear our exchange.  Once the laughing died down, I was asked if I was indeed gay, to which I replied, yes!

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Driftwood Fundraiser

This weekend I had the privilege of attending a fundraising event in New York City. This was my first trip to NY. I am lucky enough to have a friend who lives in Brooklyn so I was able to stay with him. His apartment is across the street from Marcy’s Playground and very close to a subway stop which makes it a pretty convenient location. I arrived on Saturday and my friend Mike met me on the Airtrain to help guide me to his apartment. Once we arrived in Brooklyn from JFK I left my bag at his apartment and we headed out to explore Brooklyn. We ended up in Dumbo (the area under the Brooklyn Bridge). We stopped for some lunch at a pizza place, did a little sight seeing, then returned to his apartment to get dressed for the fundraiser.

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