The following is an article I was asked to write for a website called Fire 20/20 which serves to promote diversity in the fire and EMS service.
One evening at the station, I was sitting with my fellow firefighters watching television. A female coworker was sitting next to me and began to joke with me in a way suggesting I was gay. This was in no way a homophobic situation, it was merely a way in which she and I joked to relieve some of the stress of our job. My response to her joke was basically the truth in the form of another comedic reply. However, she relatively quickly figured out I was not joking, as did the other firefighters who were sitting close enough to hear our exchange. Once the laughing died down, I was asked if I was indeed gay, to which I replied, yes!
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